How to Set Cutlery Correctly at the Table: Tips & Recommendations
The way you lay out cutlery, dinnerware, and accessories is almost as important as the food itself. A properly set table makes guests feel appreciated, whether it’s a festive holiday dinner or a casual family meal.
Basic Rules
- Arrange utensils in the order they are used, from the outside in.
- Forks go to the left of the plate, tines up.
- Knives and spoons go to the right of the plate, blades facing in.
- Only place the utensils needed for the meal; omit dessert utensils if no dessert is served.
Placing Utensils by Course
Start from the outside and work inward:
- Soup spoon (if applicable) on the right, farthest out.
- Main-course knife next to the plate, blade inward.
- Main-course fork next to the plate on the left.
- Dessert fork and/or spoon horizontally above the plate.
Dessert Utensils
For sweet, creamy desserts use dessert spoons; for tarts or cakes use dessert forks. Place them above the plate with handles toward the center:
- Dessert fork closest to the plate, handle left.
- Dessert spoon above it, handle right.
Signaling “Pause” and “Finished”
When pausing during the meal, rest knife and fork on the plate at 4 o’clock (knife handle right), 8 o’clock (fork handle left). When finished, place them parallel at 4 o’clock.
Specialty Utensils
Use steak knives for meat courses or seafood forks for shellfish. Position them in the same “outside-in” order.